It’s annoying because you have to prep for anal sex, and I don’t want to/can’t every time. I guess my body is used to this heightened sensation, so I need it to finish. The issue is, now I can’t orgasm without something inside me. I was surprised how into it she was, too. So then I started doing anal play stuff with my girlfriend. Zach, I’ve been reading all your Men’s Health articles on anal/prostate play for men, and finally decided to try it out alone. To submit a question for a future column, fill out this form. Ask me anything-literally, anything-and I will gladly Sexplain It. I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn't just 'communicate with your partner,' because you know that already.
In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). Over the years, I've had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer and ethical manwhore (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I'm very, very open about it).
